Counselling through an integrative lens

Hello, I’m Benjamin. Thanks for stopping by.

As a human, I believe there is something deeply powerful about being seen and witnessed — not as we think we should be, but as we actually are.

Life can leave us feeling lonely, forgotten or invisible. Sometimes there are things we carry that haven’t had anywhere to go, or feelings that have felt too difficult to say out loud.

I believe counselling can offer a place for those things to be acknowledged. A space where you can bring your pain, uncertainty, anger, sadness, confusion — whatever is there — and be met with compassion rather than judgement.

How I work

I’m an integrative counsellor, which means I draw on different counselling approaches depending on what feels most helpful for you. This includes:

  • Psychodynamic, which explores our past and how it can influence us today.
  • Humanistic, which provides a supportive space to better understand yourself.
  • Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), which focuses on the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.
  • Creative approaches, particularly when feelings are difficult to put into words.

Areas I work with

I have worked with clients in a wide range of areas, including:

  • Anxiety
  • ADHD
  • Bereavement
  • Cultural issues
  • Depression
  • Discrimination
  • Family conflict
  • Health-related challenges
  • LGBTQ+
  • Loneliness and isolation
  • Low self-esteem and confidence
  • Neurodiversity
  • Relationships and intimacy
  • Stress and burnout
  • Trauma
  • Workplace difficulties

I have also worked with clients who have previously been incarcerated, in areas of:

  • Abuse
  • Addiction
  • Grief and loss
  • Life after incerceration
  • Parenting challenges
  • Separation from family
 

As well as clients in the performing and visual arts, in areas of:

  • Body image concerns
  • Career uncertainty
  • Creative identity
  • Perfectionism
  • Performance anxiety
  • The emotional demands of creative work

What to expect

I believe counselling is a collaborative process. Rather than telling you what to do, I’ll work alongside you to explore your experiences and help you make sense of the thoughts, feelings and beliefs, at a pace that feels right for you.

Alongside empathy and non-judgement, I believe there is also room for humour, creativity and gentle challenge. Counselling does not always have to feel heavy; moments of lightness can help us see things from a different perspective, deepen understanding and open new possibilities for change.

Taking the first step

Reaching out for counselling can feel daunting, and it is completely natural to have questions. Whether you’re coming to counselling feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, uncertain, or simply curious, you’re welcome to get in touch. 

My Services

Individual Adult Counselling

Integrative Approach

Open-Ended and Time-Limited Counselling

The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.

-Alan Watts